WHAT DRIVES ANYONE

Is it the mothers love or the fathers care or bothers friendship or the sister’s affection or a friends trust, What exactly drives us all?

I always wanted to know, and it came to a mysterious surprise to me that it’s not the one thing that drives us it is the combination of all these things. All these small little motivations or drives combined together to create a colossal force that drives us all. It was probably my mother’s love that gave me the inspiration to walk, to go to the mother’s arms and feel that comfort one can do anything, so why not walk. Do anyone even remember their first words, nobody cares but that same small first word drives a new mother to give all the comfort and love to her baby.

All those games and fights with your brothers and sisters nobody will forget all those memories of childhood. It drove us all to be stronger smarter and competitive so that we can beat and win anything. It all came from there. Every single moment in our life is equally important, each moment is a lesson that you can learn. Once you start giving attention to all these little things you will see that life itself giving yourself a motivation every moment.

Life in a school, the most important phase of anyone’s life. Here for the first time we made our decision. This made us independent from our parents. We made friends, we choose them and they choose us. Because of those friends we went to school every day to learn new things and to be with them. Even the boy that used to bully you drove you to learn how to survive.

Do you remember your first crush at school; it felt like something enigmatic something from another world. Try to remember that feeling, I bet nobody will ever forget that. It was like a force that drove you towards itself. You for the first time felt that speedy pumping of heart in the slow motion. Try to remember the first time you tried to talk to her, it was like the earth has stopped, the blood in your veins started racing, and when you were in front of her you choked in your words and you said nothing. I wonder what everybody else did but I never said it, I never tried after that. You tried so many times but you couldn’t do it. And you said to yourself that one day you will say your feelings to her. This all made you work hard and prove yourself in front of someone you care and love. And this all came to an end when you saw her with someone else. You were devastated that day and you were angry at yourself and this taught you the most important lesson of your life. And this heart break drove you to learn how to handle yourself in such situations and made you stronger emotionally.

You left school and joined college, the place which decides anyone’s future. You were very cautious this time that you will concentrate on what you want for your future. Do you remember you first failure in college, for your family it was a shame but for you it was an important lesson. Nobody in this entire world is successful all the time, everybody in his or her life has faced failure. People treat failure in a negative way but when you start think positively you will see that failure is the biggest and far most important driver which is an integral part of anyone’s life. It’s just different people treat it differently, and those who know how to harvest this negative force in a positive way reach to the glory cliff.

So, these small things one at a time drives anyone to move forward and realize what you want to do with your life. What kind of person you want to be. And how you want to be remembered.

While I was writing it a thought came into my mind, what exactly is driving me to write this?

I for a moment was not sure, but then the true reason came back to me, it was because people forget about those drivers who somehow have shaped someone’s life. And I wanted to spread the words that like someone who has driven you towards something good you can also be a driver to someone and you can drive someone on righteous path.

You have the power to shape someone’s life, if you want to.