Is it the
mothers love or the fathers care or bothers friendship or the sister’s
affection or a friends trust, What exactly drives us all?
I always
wanted to know, and it came to a mysterious surprise to me that it’s not the
one thing that drives us it is the combination of all these things. All these
small little motivations or drives combined together to create a colossal force
that drives us all. It was probably my mother’s love that gave me the
inspiration to walk, to go to the mother’s arms and feel that comfort one can
do anything, so why not walk. Do anyone even remember their first words, nobody
cares but that same small first word drives a new mother to give all the
comfort and love to her baby.
All those
games and fights with your brothers and sisters nobody will forget all those
memories of childhood. It drove us all to be stronger smarter and competitive
so that we can beat and win anything. It all came from there. Every single
moment in our life is equally important, each moment is a lesson that you can
learn. Once you start giving attention to all these little things you will see
that life itself giving yourself a motivation every moment.
Life in a
school, the most important phase of anyone’s life. Here for the first time we
made our decision. This made us independent from our parents. We made friends,
we choose them and they choose us. Because of those friends we went to school
every day to learn new things and to be with them. Even the boy that used to
bully you drove you to learn how to survive.
Do you
remember your first crush at school; it felt like something enigmatic something
from another world. Try to remember that feeling, I bet nobody will ever forget
that. It was like a force that drove you towards itself. You for the first time
felt that speedy pumping of heart in the slow motion. Try to remember the first
time you tried to talk to her, it was like the earth has stopped, the blood in
your veins started racing, and when you were in front of her you choked in your
words and you said nothing. I wonder what everybody else did but I never said
it, I never tried after that. You tried so many times but you couldn’t do it.
And you said to yourself that one day you will say your feelings to her. This
all made you work hard and prove yourself in front of someone you care and
love. And this all came to an end when you saw her with someone else. You were
devastated that day and you were angry at yourself and this taught you the most
important lesson of your life. And this heart break drove you to learn how to
handle yourself in such situations and made you stronger emotionally.
You left
school and joined college, the place which decides anyone’s future. You were
very cautious this time that you will concentrate on what you want for your
future. Do you remember you first failure in college, for your family it was a
shame but for you it was an important lesson. Nobody in this entire world is
successful all the time, everybody in his or her life has faced failure. People
treat failure in a negative way but when you start think positively you will
see that failure is the biggest and far most important driver which is an
integral part of anyone’s life. It’s just different people treat it
differently, and those who know how to harvest this negative force in a
positive way reach to the glory cliff.
So, these
small things one at a time drives anyone to move forward and realize what you
want to do with your life. What kind of person you want to be. And how you want
to be remembered.
While I was
writing it a thought came into my mind, what exactly is driving me to write
this?
I for a
moment was not sure, but then the true reason came back to me, it was because
people forget about those drivers who somehow have shaped someone’s life. And I
wanted to spread the words that like someone who has driven you towards something
good you can also be a driver to someone and you can drive someone on righteous
path.
You have
the power to shape someone’s life, if you want to.
